Dealing with people and other thoughts.

Last week was a bit disappointing in terms of people. there were too many instances when I was hurt or upset with friends.

I thought I would write about them , I would vent my frustration/anger about how people behave nowadays but now I am not so sure.

Writing about them is not going to help them or make me feel good about it. but what I am really concerned about is people forgetting how to be nice to others, how to trust others.

Some one questioned me for charging her 30 rps extra for some tickets. I would not have minded that as much the fact she actually paid me whatever she thought was the correct price. what will I benefit from that ??

Another friend keeps asking me to make plans to meet but every time I call her , she has a reason not to come. Moreover she will not answer calls / msgs some days but I can see her active on social sites. I am tired of  making plans for others and waiting for them

A very old friend of mine thinks I am living life all wrong ’cause I do not have any exciting stories to tell him. I do not write all that comes to my mind , I do not go places , I do not tire myself with catching up with N number of people or attend every single event in the city [ Actually I do try for most of the book events ]. why can not people accept change in others ? Do I have to justify my living to all now ?

I do not understand such people. I do not understand many people off-late  I can not react offensively , I can not forget such incidents either. I do not feel like validating myself to others or to tell others if they are right or not. I only wish and feel to pray. Yes, I did not think I would say this, but I really Pray for all these people. I pray first for myself so I can keep my patience. I pray for these people to have peace in their life. I pray for random people who are so critical or negative always for the world.

I pray for Love.
I pray to be with my lover.
[ some friends think that being in a happy relationship has made me so much wise and forgiving. And I agree to this observation.]
I offer my love to god as random wishes whispered in the dark folds of night , as a lonely tear that rolls down my cheeks sometimes as I let go of another demon of my past , as the warm hug to my guy in appreciation of all smiles he has added to my life.
I thank you, Love you , adore you my God !
you are my savior. And I will forever pray for your blessings.

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0 thoughts on “Dealing with people and other thoughts.”

  1. Henry Adams said “one friend in a lifetime is much; two are many; three are hardly possible.” and I believe he also said something like ‘There are three kinds of friends: best friends,guest friends, and pest friends.’ Have a great week!

  2. I have been through seasons like this with people. Maybe, when you pray, ask God to send you a true friend? As to the friend who facebooks but doesn’t answer the phone, I’m SURE that’s more about her than you. Facebook is a “safe” way to feel connected to the world: especially when someone is depressed or avoiding “real” relationships. God bless!

    1. I know it is not about me. but she has her reasons.
      I jsut feel that you should not expect people to be there always when you do not want to recognize their efforts. It makes the impression of “taken for granted” which no one likes !

  3. I have two families: The one I was born with and the one I’ve assembled along the way. (If one is very lucky, some of the first group filter into the second. Neither of my sisters play well with others!)

    I wish you peace, more love than you can handle, long passionate nights, hand-holding in front of God and everybody days… and my prayer for you is the same thing I pray for myself: Patience. Patience with the naysayers, the discouragers, the buzzkills, and the “whatevers,” (you know who they are because they only call you to complain.

    Love, love, love, raining down on us all!!! Amy

  4. more love than you can handle, long passionate nights, hand-holding in front of God and everybody days ..

    Awww .. you are THE SWEETEST & KINDEST one Amy !!

    always 🙂 bless you lady .. and bless you lot of patience 🙂

  5. Reading the instances you have mentioned instantly makes me nod my head.. I also have the habit of letting things brew in my head sometimes and going around in circles in my head while not being able to/or just not wanting to say anything to the person concerned. Now I’m a bit wiser (older?!) and I just try to clear the air (may not be possible in work related but at least with friends) and see how it goes! Other instances, just try HARD to put it out of my mind and find peace in other things, just as you have said :).

  6. I offer my love to god as random wishes whispered in the dark folds of night , as a lonely tear that rolls down my cheeks sometimes as I let go of another demon of my past , as the warm hug to my guy in appreciation of all smiles he has added to my life.

    oh friend. you don’t know how this ministers to me. i’ve been so disappointed by people lately too. yet we can always count on our heavenly father, can’t we? i hope this coming week goes better for you. xo

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